Top 5 Books about Dating & Relationships for Men
I have been fortunate enough to read some excellent books on this subject, and especially within the last 3 years. If you are a man who wants to know more about dating and relationships and how to be successful in your love life, these are must-reads. So without further ado:
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“The Game” by Neil Strauss. This is an excellent book. It is the story of bestselling author Neil Strauss’ journey from being a nerd to a superstar in the seduction and pickup community. There are jewels of advice scattered throughout the book, but the true value is in the storytelling. It also lets the reader know what is possible for a man who just isn’t that good with women if they put forth a little effort. A great book and I would recommend it to anyone.
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“The Mystery Method” by Mystery, Lovedrop, and Neil Strauss. After reading “The Game”, you will naturally be curious to know and understand the methodology of it’s main superstar teacher, Mystery. This book basically tells 3/4 of everything you will ever need to know about meeting women. The other 1/4 you will learn by experience. I can’t stress how great this book is, not just for meeting girls but also for learning how to handle yourself better in social situations. If you suck with women, you need this book. If you are okay with women, you need this book to get better. If you are good with women and have never heard of this book before, get it to understand WHY you are so good. Excellent read.
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“She Comes First” by Ian Kerner. I read this one during an educational phase I was undertaking in my own relationship. I wanted to know how to better please and take care of the special lady in my life. If Mystery’s book teaches you how to use your mouth to be a better speaker, this book teaches you how to use your mouth to be adept at other things. Ahem, if you know what I’m saying. (I’m trying to keep it PG here!) You get the idea here. Great book.
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“The Way of The Superior Man” by David Deida. This book is more helpful once you are in a relationship but can also help with other areas of your life. It’s very spiritual, but also very enlightening. Deida speaks of finding your true purpose in life and letting all other things like family, love, and everything else fall into place around your true purpose. It also highlights why it’s difficult to deal with your woman sometimes, why you shouldn’t get mad when your woman tests you, and how to handle such situations. It was very enjoyable and you may have some very deep insights by the end.
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“Mastering Your Hidden Self” by Serge Kahili King. This book is about the ancient art of Huna. It is a form of spirituality that can enhance your current spiritual preference or stand on its own if you don’t have a spiritual preference. While the spirituality of it can be quite enlightening, the real strength of the book is it’s precepts and that “the world is what you think it is.” You can learn a lot about yourself and ways to master your life, career, and relationships from the book. I still like to read it from time to time and it gives a me a reminder that ultimately I am in control of my life and destiny. Give it a read.
These are my 5 favorites. If you don’t have them, get them! You won’t be sorry.
Clark
