The Shocking Story About Mystery PUA (Pick-Up Artist) Investigated
Most every few hours more myths is passed from person to person focused on Mystery PUA (Pick-up Artist), a man who appeared on Playboy TV as an expert. Some of the whispers are correct. But nearly every turns out to be made up. This article was because I wanted to set the record straight. The reason why is because Mystery actually has uncovered many valuable insights for meeting pretty girls. Then before we conclude I’ve added a resource to give you a 34-page video tactical ebook with instant access from www.MysteryPUA.net.
MysteryPUA.net has operated a no holds barred study of Mystery, who’s appeared on the Chelsea Lately show has instructed countess men an unusual method to enjoy romancing pretty girls. We’ve worked with hundreds of thousands of men and gotten loads of feedback. During our analysis our research uncovered that Mystery has just a few main lessons ,which I have decided most people will desire to find out about…
Targeting raising value is one important theme Mystery teaches that can appear well known but turns out to be extremely out of the ordinary because many times in social situations folks are either with friends or feeling quiet. So in reality is the majority of folks aren’t having as much fun as it might first appear. Mystery points out you can use anything from an unusual observation to palm reading to bring up the mood. The reason why to be the life of the party. An easy path to provide value is by telling stories. Effective to keep in mind isshare stories that subtly share admirable qualities about you, as in: that you’re used to the attention of women. That is the most critical trait about yourself you can share because then they know you’re comfortable with and attractive to other women. A way to accomplish this is beginning your story with “I was out last night with a couple of girlfriends…” The point here is subtly implying you’re preselected by women but not to turn it into a whole production. The largest upside in doing this is you lower the girl’s guard. This is because we share value, which makes us stand out from everyone else
Yet another critical strategy is how to get a girl’s phone number or Facebook information. To begin that getting her Facebook information many times is surprisingly desirable to getting a lady’s phone number because 1) It’s simpler because chicks want to add friends on Facebook so she feels like she’s increasing her social circle 2) It’s less intimidating then getting her digits because you’re giving her plausible reason for her to deny that you might sexually interested, but you might be just making friends 3) You can build your Facebook profile to make you look especially attractive by adding fun pictures, and writing interesting details about yourself. and 4) You can always get her number later on. Now whether you’re asking for a girl’s number or her Facebook contact info, the fundamentals are uniform. You want to be enjoying an fun talk with her on topics that are exciting to the girl. Which means emotional topics and NOT logical topics. Exciting situations and clothing are examples of emotional topics. Logical topics include your car and math are examples of logical and therefore uninteresting topics. Right when you notice that the girl is interested then give her a compliment like “I’m curious about you” and then ask for her number or her Facebook info and then give her a reason why. An example is “Because we should hang out”. It doesn’t matter what the reason is, just that you have one because that’s how psychology work.
The key with both of these tactics is to act distinct so as to stand out to women who are bored of listening to the same old lines like: What’s your name?” Chicks have heard this so many times that it makes guys seem boring. For videos and many more lessons from Mystery and I on how to stand out when it comes to attracting pretty members of the finer sex the visit www.MysteryPUA.net. ( a 34-page video book including many detailed techniques for attracting lovely girls.
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The Weird Story On The Subject Of Mystery Method Unmasked
Thousands of men are hearing whispers targeted at Mystery Method, and it’s founder the greatest Pick-up artist in the world so says many folks who have seen him up close and personal… One or two of these scuttlebutt aren’t made up. However most are inaccurate. This article is to help men distinguish the right from the wrong This is important is because Mystery has demonstrated great skill that have inspired tens of thousands guys how to better the fruits of their labor courting the fairer sex. Mike Long sheds a light on the situation.
www.theMysteryMethod.net is a respected source on Mystery and Mystery Method because we’ve organized an intensive inspection of this Pick up artist and his tips for the last several years. We’ve conducted days of conversations with Mystery himself, and with thousands of his disciples. Most this pick-up artist’s trainees have stories of improvement in courting gorgeous girls. We’ve established a couple critical teachings that we think every men should hear about:
Having fun is one key game plan Mystery Method uses that might look well known but turns out to be very in practice infrequent because the majority of situations in the bar scene people are either with a group or feeling a bit nervous. The result is in reality is the majority of people aren’t having as good of a time as it might first appear. Mystery instructs his students to anything from teasing to being playful to bring up the mood. The reason why to be setting yourself apart by making things an event. An easy way to share value is with storytelling. Effective to mind istell stories that subtly tell positive traits about you, like: that other women want you. That is the most important idea about yourself you can share because then they know you’re comfortable with and attractive to other women. A way to accomplish this beginning your story with I was out shopping with a couple of my girlfriends and… What you’re trying to accomplish is subtly implying you’re preselected by women but not to turn it into the focus of the story The largest gain in doing this is you come off as “safe” but still fun. This is because it’s important to share value, which reflects back on us from the crowd
Another strategy Mystery thinks highly of sharing is duplicating the success of beautiful girls because beautiful ladies in most cases pieced together ways to be hot. Guys in general don’t put two and two together to figure out that beauty is mostly a skill, and not only a matter of getting lucky. Pretty members of the finer sex usually spend years and years learning how to be lovely. They often focus conversation with girlfriends about shopping and make-up. Often girls read books on the latest styles and watch nearly every Television show on the subject of fashion. And young ladies usually practice turning heads wherever they can until they get it down. Not every lady you bump into focused how to be attractive but for the most part ladies who are pretty have. So instead of starting from square one Mystery figured out that it was better to reverse engineer the moves of lovely ladies. A tactic he developed based on observing a girl is how chicks often start many conversations over their shoulders to demonstrate they are having fun. Mystery Method also learned several teasing lines like “How do you hang with this girl?” Note that teasing aught to be playful with lots of laughter because bad feelings make the situation less enjoyable. And having fun is a huge part of dating girls.
The main lesson in these two Mystery Method tactics is to make ourselves stand out because if women are on the prowl it’s because she isn’t satisfied with what she normally experiences. If we would like things to be different, then its best do something out of the ordinary. Though it may appear obvious it usually turns out that most guys seem as commonplace instead of exciting For additional lessons on how to dress and ways to spread good energy, and for other tips I’ve included a link below to a free site with oodles more!
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Personal Development Training
I’m taking a break from seminars and courses this year to narrow my focus to improving in very specific areas in my health, wealth, and relationships. That being said I have been very blessed and fortunate to take part in some great seminars and courses over the past few years and those have led to a lot of personal growth and development in my life. I believe that any time you have the chance to take advantage of a high end seminar or course of some kind on a topic that really fascinates you, then you should go all out and take the course.
Here are some of the more interesting courses I’ve taken:
1. Relationships: I took a bootcamp with Venusian Arts led by Mystery himself. I never really spoke about this in detail because I was somewhat secretive about it at the time but I’ve always been a fan of pickup and I really have no qualms about sharing it now. It is the means by which I got into the Rich Jerk’s Playboy Mansion party. This in turn introduced me to my fascination and obsession with internet marketing and led me to starting this blog as well. It was one of the best and most rewarding weekends of my life. I got to meet Neil Strauss, Ross Jeffries, Eben Pagan (a.k.a. David DeAngelo), and a slew of other guys who are big names in that realm. I also learned more about not just women, but relationships and human interaction than at any other stretch in my life.
It literally was a game changer for me and I would recommend that any man who would like to learn more about women and how to improve the relationships in their life to take a bootcamp from a reputable company. The importance behind it is they are not just teaching tricks to get more women, but rather a lifestyle of constant improvement. By cultivating this attitude of always getting better in all areas of your life, you will naturally become more attractive and more women will be attracted to you anyway which is just icing on the cake. I’ve also looked at many related books and courses on the subject since then and have gained a mass amount of knowledge on evolutionary and general psychology. It’s almost eerie how related that dating and marketing can actually be sometimes, which leads me to my next section.
2. Wealth: I have written about a few of these here, but it’s worth noting that I have dedicated a vast amount of time into ebooks, books, courses, and seminars on marketing the last few years. I’ve even selected marketing as a minor when I go back to school later this month because I’m so passionate about it. I’ve gotten courses from the Rich Jerk, Frank Kern, Mike Filsaime, Eben Pagan, and so on and so forth. I’m taking one currently about SEO that is already paying dividends with this site as well as the other projects I’m involved in.
One of my favorite experiences is getting to be at Frank Kern’s Mass Control 2.0 seminar in San Diego and getting to soak up such great information and be around a crowd that is so passionate about the subject. I learned a massive amount of great tips and techniques that weekend that I either have implemented or will in the coming years.
One of the downsides of all this is that I overwhelmed myself with information at times and didn’t take action to the extent that I should have. I’ve gone about correcting that problem this year and am already seeing results from it and hope to build on my progress as I get better.
I have no doubt that someday I will be making my living as a marketer and writer as a result of my introduction to this community. (Be here when it happens! 
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3. Health: Because of the progress I made in the other two areas of my life, I noticed that I was slipping physically at times. So I started to work out again. I made a little progress right away but wanted a little structure and a plan I could follow. So I got my hands on a copy of P90X and it made a big difference for me. I made it to the third phase but found that I was getting a bit bored with the redundancy of the workouts so I switched to a more traditional weightlifting, cardio, and sports combo of exercise which has been phenomenal for me. I’m now in great physical shape and am training to run a half-marathon in May and then a full marathon later in the year.
The point here though is that P90X was HUGE for me. It got me into a habit of eating in a disciplined fashion and understanding how my body reacts to eating and working out. This allows me to make necessary changes on the fly and even if I eat some junk food now I don’t worry because I know when to be a little more conservative with my diet and/or when to rest and change up my workout routines.
Summary: I’ve been able to either take a seminar or go through a home study course for each area of my life over the past few years and all have made a huge difference for me. I am narrowing my focus to taking more action this year and taking less courses, but the foundation of knowledge I have built by taking high value trainings is invaluable to me. I have invested literally tens of thousands of dollars into my personal development and it has paid dividends for me in every area of my life and my overall well-being. I would encourage anybody else to do the same.
You don’t have to buy a big expensive course, but just simply start out with a book or a good blog. Try to practically apply the fundamentals of what you learn and use what works for you in your life and personal situation. Then as you gain a little more knowledge and experience, consider taking a higher end course of some kind. It will most likely be one of the most rewarding and fulfilling experiences of your life.
The Power of “Small-Chunking” it
Happy Independence Day!
One of the things I’ve read recently in many articles is about how people today all want the elusive “magic pill” and the quick fix that will solve all their problems. Then there is the cliché (but true) advice that nothing happens overnight and that everything takes time and hard work.
While I agree with this advice, I think it can be discouraging at times to anybody trying to improve their health, wealth, or relationships in some way. I believe a reframe is definitely in order. Reading over Neil Strauss’s archive which chronicles his journey and ascension to mastery of his dating life as described in The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists, one of my favorite pieces of advice that he would give was about “small-chunking” pieces to your game. If he wanted to meet a woman, he knew he would have to become proficient at opening a group of people until he had mastery over that skill. He would then have to add the next piece to his repertoire and so on until he was competent enough to have navigated an entire interaction and was dating the woman he wanted to date.
This advice is excellent and is much more valuable to me than “everything takes time and hard work”. Well of course it does! But what a wonderful attitude to have towards any task you undertake in your personal development.
Take this website for instance. It is still in its fetal stage as I am writing this article. In order to learn the skills necessary to get to this point, I have gone through many transition phases as I learn what it takes to get a blog up and running and I am far from done. I had a blog on Blogger, and then figured out that I preferred Wordpress. I knew virtually nothing about HTML and CSS, but now I know a little and that body of knowledge is growing. I knew nothing about advertising, marketing, and traffic-building and I am slowly integrating these things into my routine. I hadn’t seriously written anything other than a term paper, and now I have a venue to express my opinions, experience and creativity and craft them in a way that will help and bring value to others. The best part is I’m still learning and I am enjoying the journey. I consider my website or any venture I undertake to be a work of art and I am the artist, consistently molding and refining and improving the work.
This is the way to be with any undertaking of personal development and improving your health, wealth, and relationships. Consider your self to be both the art and the artist. Decide what it is that you want yourself to be and “upgrade” yourself in small chunks. Here is a step-by-step process to getting there.
1. Write down what you want. Do you want a better job? A better body? A better significant other? Or all three? Write your desires down on paper. Make them more tangible and more real. Some might call this goal-setting. Try to be as specific as possible. Write the position you want in the company and how much you want to be paid, the target weight and body fat percentage you wish to have, and the type of special someone you’d like to have complete with a list of qualities they should possess. This helps you in the next step.
2. Focus on each goal. Focus is one of the most important skills that you already have and don’t even realize it. If you’re anything like me your focus gets derailed many times throughout every day. The skill is in how you can avoid the distractions or deal with them quickly and get back on track. Another thing to keep in mind is not multitasking. When you try to do more than one thing at once, you will not do justice to any of them. You can work on all your goals at once, but NOT AT THE SAME TIME. Read a chapter from that book that will give you a leg up on getting that job over your peers, THEN go to the gym for an hour, THEN go talk to that attractive man/woman you see while you’re having drinks at the happy hour. Make active attempts to FOCUS on what you want and then take action.
3. If you don’t know where to start, model someone who has the skill you want to have. This is of mass importance. If you got to hang out with Michael Jordan in the gym, Warren Buffett in the boardroom, and Neil Strauss in the nightclub for a whole week you’d better believe your basketball, investing, and social acuity would be several notches better than they were before. Now think of somebody you know who is good at these skills on a smaller scale like a friend or family member. Go to that person and talk to them about how they do what they do. The insight you can get from these interactions will blow your mind. Start emulating the things this person does in the areas that you want to improve and watch yourself get better. Then find another person to model and then another. Pretty soon you will be a master and hopefully be able to mentor someone else.
4. Don’t panic or get frustrated into stopping your pursuit of excellence if you get stuck or appear to hit a plateau. Simply go to your mentor, look for available information on Google, or ask somebody who might know and push through it. There are so many times I get stuck with code or HTML or adding something to this site. I’m usually able to model someone else’s site who has what I want to have or I can just Google the question over and over in different ways until I find the answer. People are out there who want to help you answer your questions. You just have to be assertively and aggressively seeking them out. What you will find usually is that once you plow through that roadblock, it will be followed by a rapid series of success and progression. Think of it as your skill set catching up on lost time from the plateau. Keep this in mind and maintain a positive attitude, even through the pain periods.
5. Once you have mastered one skill in the skill set you are working towards, build on it by going after the next one with just as much vigor. Stay at it! Continue to write about your journey. It doesn’t just end with writing the goals down. Write down in a journal what you are going through and repeat the processes you encountered in your mind. Think about what you could have done differently or better. You will gain mastery a lot faster this way by reliving your successes (competence builds confidence) and learning from your failures (the value of knowing what NOT to do).
6. Once you master the skills you desire, enjoy them and also help others who are on similar paths. This comes back to modeling. Help someone else who was in your shoes. This serves two purposes: Not only do you help someone who is in need, but you also learn more and gain greater mastery for yourself. It has been said that you are not truly a master of something unless you can teach it. Your student can bring questions and issues to your attention and possibly give you perspectives on the skills you possess in ways you had not previously thought of. This is the only path to true mastery. If there is enough demand for your skill set and you desire to do so, you can earn extra income or build a business off of it and charge for your time and expertise. This could be in the form of a book, a weekend seminar, or a consulting session. What greater compliment and respect for your skills than to be paid to help others develop their own?
Realize that anything you TRULY want in life can be yours. It’s just a matter of defining what those things are, using others to help you along the way bit by bit, and ultimately helping others once you get to where you want to be. Be the Michelangelo AND the David of your life simultaneously and sculpt yourself, a small chunk at a time.
Top 5 Books about Dating & Relationships for Men
I have been fortunate enough to read some excellent books on this subject, and especially within the last 3 years. If you are a man who wants to know more about dating and relationships and how to be successful in your love life, these are must-reads. So without further ado:
1.
“The Game” by Neil Strauss. This is an excellent book. It is the story of bestselling author Neil Strauss’ journey from being a nerd to a superstar in the seduction and pickup community. There are jewels of advice scattered throughout the book, but the true value is in the storytelling. It also lets the reader know what is possible for a man who just isn’t that good with women if they put forth a little effort. A great book and I would recommend it to anyone.
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“The Mystery Method” by Mystery, Lovedrop, and Neil Strauss. After reading “The Game”, you will naturally be curious to know and understand the methodology of it’s main superstar teacher, Mystery. This book basically tells 3/4 of everything you will ever need to know about meeting women. The other 1/4 you will learn by experience. I can’t stress how great this book is, not just for meeting girls but also for learning how to handle yourself better in social situations. If you suck with women, you need this book. If you are okay with women, you need this book to get better. If you are good with women and have never heard of this book before, get it to understand WHY you are so good. Excellent read.
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“She Comes First” by Ian Kerner. I read this one during an educational phase I was undertaking in my own relationship. I wanted to know how to better please and take care of the special lady in my life. If Mystery’s book teaches you how to use your mouth to be a better speaker, this book teaches you how to use your mouth to be adept at other things. Ahem, if you know what I’m saying. (I’m trying to keep it PG here!) You get the idea here. Great book.
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“The Way of The Superior Man” by David Deida. This book is more helpful once you are in a relationship but can also help with other areas of your life. It’s very spiritual, but also very enlightening. Deida speaks of finding your true purpose in life and letting all other things like family, love, and everything else fall into place around your true purpose. It also highlights why it’s difficult to deal with your woman sometimes, why you shouldn’t get mad when your woman tests you, and how to handle such situations. It was very enjoyable and you may have some very deep insights by the end.
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“Mastering Your Hidden Self” by Serge Kahili King. This book is about the ancient art of Huna. It is a form of spirituality that can enhance your current spiritual preference or stand on its own if you don’t have a spiritual preference. While the spirituality of it can be quite enlightening, the real strength of the book is it’s precepts and that “the world is what you think it is.” You can learn a lot about yourself and ways to master your life, career, and relationships from the book. I still like to read it from time to time and it gives a me a reminder that ultimately I am in control of my life and destiny. Give it a read.
These are my 5 favorites. If you don’t have them, get them! You won’t be sorry.
Clark
